Mila,
as you know, is one of our high performing software engineers based in
California. She is smart, sensitive, works well in a team. Mr. Schultz is her
German counterpart in the new project. He is a fairly nice guy, respected by his
peers for his contribution, excited to work with the American team. Both get
along very well over emails and phone conversations and are collaboratively
working on this fast track project.
One
day, there is a disagreement between the two. Mr. Schultz is very critical of
Mila’s software and presents his ideas on how she could improve it. He doesn’t
hold back any criticism telling her how the basis of her idea is just plain wrong.
You see, he comes from a culture with no pretense; they speak what they feel. Mila,
on the other hand, is a strong individual but sensitive to her audience when
she speaks. Mila decides Mr. Schultz is just a stubborn person who is not
accommodative of others. She thinks his intention is to ridicule her ideas. “Why would he always oppose what I say
otherwise?”
The
next week, something comes up and their project manager Karl decides that Mila
should visit their German facility. Karl says, “I know we are cutting on costs this quarter but this might help the
team work better and faster. There seem to be a lot of ideas going back and
forth. ” Mila immediately grabs the opportunity and is excited to meet the
team in Germany. She spends a month there. They work hard that month; they work
late nights, share a beer or two, but make it “one productive month!”
In
that one month, Mila learnt a few things about Mr. Schultz. He is open and
straight-forward, not stubborn. He gives you an honest feedback, no pretense
there. Mila realizes that Mr. Schultz’s extremely critical feedback actually led
them to create a very stable software by the end of the month.
How
did Mila’s opinion change? Because she saw the man in action! She saw the
emotions and reason behind his critical emails. She began to understand the
goal behind the criticism. And so on…
So,
is travel really expensive?
Is this post to justify your Vienna trip?
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